Second of all. Love.

Second of all. Love
On this one, I was set in some guide lines. Like, no loving the same gender.  Yeah that was about it. My father being christain was set against the entire idea of it. My mother who was born on a reserve was more okay with it, she said as long as it isn't desplayed in public it's doing no one harm,. BNut she meant that for anyone, because really no one wants to pass by and watch people make out.
I was set against my fathers idea of love. I said anyone can love anyone. Just because people should not be personified by who or what they are, but really what they do, and how they act.
Love has endless limits and can be found anywhere by anyone.
My own definition of love would be
Someone who would do anything for you
Someone who would die for you
Someone who would sacrifice for you
Someone who would be with you through anything
Someone who will support you at every moment
Someone who will give you there honest opinion and never tell a lie
Someone who will lead you in the right direction for your own good
Someone who gives up everything for you

A selfless relationship. I've never heard of any, and I can't imagine it ever happening, people fight it's natural and will always happen, I believe it will help the outcome if they go through struggles to make the relatiosnhips tronger. And I can't see any other way of doing it.
Everyone has struggles, and they should never have to face it alone.
I never appreciated the fact that love has a special definition in our generation.
but I believe no matter how much hurt in the world you can always find love, and get out of your ugly pitt of hopeless and forgotten nights drowned in alcohol and sorrow. Love will be there if you don't give up.
But you don't need love to be happy. I was told if you aren't happy with yourself, no one else will be. Find a way to be happy on your own, you don't need someone else to tell you you're special, when you should already know you are.